This life i live that at times tries to beat me down that i didn’t quite understand, i have come to love. All i see is beautiful people with a common interest. Life is artwork, and once you see that you can really enjoy it. Everything from the curve of her back to the garbage on the street is artwork. What caused it to be there ? What caused her to not trust anyone. I think the best thing about this universe is that nothing is the same. The human body is one of my favorite pieces of art for the range of differences. i wanna learn what makes you tick and know every single inch of your body, every mole, every what you would call a blemish. What people call imperfection i call perfection. we were created by the universe. That scar from your childhood is a part of you and nothing is more beautiful then the genuine you. Life is a beautiful entity and what makes it beautiful is that you can see similarities in the universe. Galaxies look like brain neurons and trees resemble lungs. coincidence ? i think not.Art isn’t only the song but the notes that make it up. Art isn’t only in the final Finished Canvas but every single stroke. Seriously take your time to smell every beautiful petal
Contrary what people may think about this relationship, right now she makes me happy and means the world to me. I have never met someone that i clicked so well with. everything she says sounds perfect like something i would say. She is the first person i ever really felt like i need. I adore her red hair and her green/red eyes. i stare into her eyes and the red comes from the pupil like fire. i love that. When i first saw her it was love at first sight. I looked into her eyes and knew i want her in my life forever. I didn’t really believe in a soul mate but she makes me believe that there are soul mates. i found mine <3 :-)
Honestly i don’t know what the future will bring but if this somehow goes wrong i will be grateful she gave me the time of day and allowed me to fall in love again.
You should look at a relationship the same way. it may have went wrong but at least you had it and for a minute you were happier then you thought you had ever been. Go into a relationship 100%. try to put passed relationships behind you. worry too much you won’t be able to enjoy falling in love and you will only notice the breakup and use that as fuel for your distrust which was your fault anyway
"They" are generally girls. Not only and not not always. But most of the time
Of my few followers some of you may have noticed i have had many post with hearts or other things referring to my present girlfriends. For the most part you guys and her are the only people who understand how much i adore this girl. You and her not my friends not my family
I have mentioned to a few people that i think she is my soul mate and that i feel she is the one i will marry.
You know why most people don’t know?
started talking to her not even a month after i broke up with my ex of 6 years
i fell for her before i met her within a two month period over the internet
Be honest those two reason may make you think he is naive, so why tell my friends
One of my friends has been going through many relationships that end the same way, The guy leaves her either due to her clingy nature or they were using her in the beginning. idk what goes through their mind i couldn’t tell you.
That reason brings me full circle. I am a person who is very socially aware and i know what bothers people. so i don’t mention my happiness when people are down because most people are selfish. I talked to this friend all the time about her problems and even opened up to her about mine when i was really depressed. Even though i have only been a good friend and have always been happy for her she can’t do the same for me. Not in a selfish way more in an uncontrollable way. Like she wants me to be happy but i can sense the jealousy. Another friend is the same but a little better. She ask me how it is going and i talk about then back to her like most people so that doesn’t even bother me. i am a better listener anyway.
The problem is with many girls are that way.They are often selfish and may try to sabotage anything good for you especially if they are not that well off. If i had went into detail they would say you are crazy, she is just a rebound girl. First off i never rush into relationships because i can be content alone. i never look for relationships or chase girls. You should also do the same. never look because then you twist reality a bit to make certain things work then wind up unhappy later. A single women will more likely say idk remember the last guy, or make sure he is ok. Sometimes it is womens intuition but ask a happily married women and they will have more suggestions like take a chance and positive stuff like that.
Guys are usually all the same. The most negative things you will usually get are one of two things
She isn’t that attractive
Guys are openly shallow and voice their opinion if they believe the guy is more attractive. if a guy tell his guy friends how happy she makes him and how cool she is they will almost immediately stop caring and be happy for him
she is a bitch
Sometimes she is not always a bitch, sometimes the girl is just too mom like and takes away a guys best friend. Of course there are those times when she really is a bitch. often if she is hot guys will understand it is just for sex, and as long as they are losing their friend the girl will remain the bitch but after a while they will get over it
if you disagree fine but either way i feel that until you have a nice grounded relationship you shouldn’t incorporate your friends opinion too much. They will amplify most negatives and downplay the positives and if it doesn’t last do you really want to hear i told you so.Mostly in the case of women. Again this is not all women but many if not most, i think most. Don’t blame your friends though. We all want the same thing. Happiness and someone to be there for us. You can’t change the way you feel.
They rather see the pain then you being happier then them